Calming Toolkit

Relaxation Guide

August 27, 2025

Short, repeatable scripts to drop heart rate, quiet the mind, and prepare for sleep.

4-7-8 Breath (5 minutes)

  1. Inhale quietly through nose for 4 seconds.
  2. Hold for 7 seconds.
  3. Exhale through mouth for 8 seconds; repeat 6–8 cycles.

Progressive Muscle Relaxation (8 minutes)

  • Start at feet, tense 5 seconds, release 10 seconds; move upward to calves, thighs, abdomen, hands, shoulders, jaw, eyes.
  • Pair with dim lights per Environment Optimization.

Mindful Wind-Down (6 minutes)

  • List 3 wins of the day; 3 gratitude items; 1 gentle intention for tomorrow.
  • Close with a mantra: “I am off duty; rest restores me.”

When the Mind Spins

  • Do a 2-minute “brain dump” on paper outside the bedroom; aligns with worry-time.
  • If still alert, leave bed and read a physical book until drowsy—respect Sleep Schedule consistency.

Four-Night Session Progression

  1. Night 1-5: 4-7-8 breathing only (5 min).
  2. Night 3-4: Add PMR from toes to jaw (8 min).
  3. Week 2: Full mindful wind-down sequence (15 min).

When Relaxation Increases Alertness

If breathwork feels activating, switch to passive listening or body scan without breath control. Pair with stimulus control -- leave bed if still alert after 20 min.